Wednesday, February 1, 2012

The Gift

It’s a special occasion for someone special.
A family member,
a good friend,
a love interest,
a life partner,
you know; someone you love—you hold dear.

For that person: money is no object. (we’re pretending here)
You find them something that is perfect.
It’s gonna bless their socks off.

You take it to the counter. Pay for it. Have it gift wrapped. You’re excited. You can’t wait to give it to them. You know they will love it.

The moment arrives. You present the gift to them.
“Oh, you shouldn’t have,” they gush.
You smile and say, “Go ahead, open it.”

They are shocked, amazed, ecstatic; it’s perfect. They stare at the gift in wonder. Huge smile. Then they look you in the eye and say,

“How much do I owe you?”

(Huh!? Insert sound of a needle scratching over the surface of a record on a turntable)

New scenario:
Same thing as above; only this time they look you in the eye and say, “Wow, this is so wonderful. I can’t believe you got this for me. Thank you!”
As they give you a hug you say, “You’re welcome. Now you owe me. From now on I want you to…”

(Huh!? again: same needle scratch sound)

We all know the idea of a gift is that it’s something you give away without expecting anything back, except perhaps a thank you.
It’s a great feeling to bless someone with a perfect gift.
It’s a great feeling to be blessed when you are the receiver of a perfect gift.

The first reply above is as good as an insult to the giver.
It robs the great feeling and negates the blessing.
The second reply above is as good as an insult to the receiver.
It also robs the great feeling and negates the blessing.
Both put a price on a gift completely removing the entire concept of the item being a gift.

The first needs to learn how to receive a gift.
The second needs to learn how to give a gift.
Both need to learn what a gift really is.

Even the words “free gift” put together like this seems odd.
A gift is a gift.
Add anything to it like a cost or a stipulation and it’s no longer free or a gift.
It’s something else entirely.
It’s a debt,
an obligation.
Hardly a “blessing,” that’s for sure.
Not even close.

So much for free.

Who would want a gift like that?
Who would give a gift like that?
Who would want to accept a gift like that?

The following is a short synopsis of how a lot of believers see the Bible.
It is very brief and rough.

God created man in His image including being an eternal creation.
Man messed it up by disobeying God.
Death was the punishment: the end of living eternally on earth.
God provided a way for man to regain his eternal life: keep His commands.
God instructed man to sacrifice an animal on an altar, shedding its blood whenever we mess up; whenever we sin.
This keeps us in good stead with God.
Everyone sinned. Everyone sacrificed.
God told man that He didn’t like the sacrifice of animals and told man that He would provide a perfect sacrifice that would remove all Sin once for all.
Jesus, the Savior, was born.
He lived a perfect life keeping all of God’s commands.
God allowed Jesus to be put to death and as He died, God put all the sins of mankind on Him.
Jesus took all the sins of mankind upon Himself and suffered the full punishment in our place and died.
Jesus was then raised from the dead.
We now have a living Savior who reigns in Heaven and intercedes for us with the Father.
If we believe in Jesus, we have eternal life.
We are good with God once more.

Eternal life is God’s gift to mankind.

We deserved death; for all have sinned.
Jesus shed His blood and died in our place: the Lamb of God on the altar of the cross.
We believe in Jesus: we get the gift of God.

Simple.

Simple enough to confound the wise.

But…

(uh, oh… the ‘but’)

Many teach (and believe) we are now obligated to do something to get the gift.

(huh!?)

Many teach (and believe) God requires something back when we receive the gift.

(huh!?)

The now you musts.
The now you need tos.
The now you’re supposed tos.

But isn’t a gift free?

Are you saying even with God, there’s no such thing as a free lunch?

How can you trust a god who’s like that?
How can anyone trust a god who’s like that?
The gift is either free, or it isn’t.
Which one?
It isn’t possible to be both.

It’s no wonder Unbelievers have such a hard time believing. A lot of things Believers say and teach and believe sound—and frankly are—contradictory and confusing.

Most Believers have a hard time sharing the Good News not because they are timid, or don’t know how, or haven’t completed a course, or say they are not ‘called’ to ‘that’ ministry.

Lots of Believers see these same contradictions and are just as confused.
They don’t feel equipped to deal with these things when they come up:
and they will come up.
They themselves chalk these things up to ‘faith’ issues
and hope they hear a sermon or teaching someday
that will clear things up.
In the meantime
they stay
silent.

Sad,
because so many need to hear the message.

The message of the Gift.

The free Gift
of God’s grace.

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